Have you made New Year’s resolutions in the past and they didn’t work? Are you looking for something that will work and that will help you move forward with accomplishing your goals?

What changes would you like to see happen in this New Year? Are you looking for CHANGE? Ask anyone, and most will begin giving you a list of things they would like to see changed.

What would you like to see happen? Have you given up on certain areas in your life? I want to encourage you, DON’T GIVE UP!

Have you ever wondered why change is so hard? I have. I think about it a lot. Certainly there are countless reasons why so many people fail at bringing about change. We have seen the Hollywood stars gain and lose their weight even when they know the world is watching. Change can be hard, but it doesn’t have to be. What about your finances, how are you doing in that area of your life?

There are countless books on weight loss, exercise, financial bondage, relationships, and reaching your dreams. These subjects seem to always find themselves on the Best Sellers list. We purchase these books because these things dramatically affect our lives.

I personally own books on all of these subjects and have found them helpful. But, I have also found that all the knowledge in the world on a subject will not make you change. Why? Satan has one goal for your life:

“The thief comes only to steal, kill and destroy…” (John 10:10).

Satan desires to destroy your life in any way that he can. He works hard at keeping you discouraged. He would like for you to continue to have thoughts like, “I will never change, I’ve always been this way, this is as good as it gets, I’ll always be single, there’s no hope for my marriage, my children, on and on the lies flood your mind.” Lies, all lies. Change these lies to, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13). Cling to this verse when the fiery darts come. Stand up to the fact that change is possible.

Change happens every day, with singles who find their mates, with broken marriages, with messed up teens, adolescents, and even with seniors. I have a good friend whose parents were dramatically changed and found the Lord very late in life. Change is possible for everyone and at any stage in life.

One key to change is to recognize when Satan begins to speak his lies to you. Do you ever hear yourself say, “I’m stuck, I’ve never been able to do this before, it’s just too hard”? Do you feel stuck, and believe that change will never happen? Maybe you’ve never been able to make this change before, but remember; it’s never too late. We know “With God all things are possible” (Mark 10:27). Making change can be hard, but not impossible. You must believe this.

Look back over the past year, what changes have you made. What are some of the good things that happened in 2012? Thank God for all that He has blessed you with this past year.

What Will Make 2013 Any Different?  Write a plan for the year. If you don’t set a target, most likely you won’t hit one.
 

1. Begin in prayer. Set aside time to seek the Lord about what He would like to see you do over the next year. “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him” (James 1:5). Be sure and ask Him.
2. Make a list of three things that you can get accomplished in the next three months.
3. Make a list of three things you would like to see accomplished in the next six months.
4. Write your Dream Goal for 2013. (Write one Dream Goal and the plans for accomplishing it.)
5. Put these lists on the refrigerator, on your bathroom mirror, and in your Day-Timer or the calendar you use. If you place these goals in all three places, they will be constant reminders of the goals you desire to reach over the year.
6. Start a support prayer group for the year. Meet at least once a month.
7. Select the person who will be your accountability partner through this year. Give them your list of goals. Weekly go over the goals and have them help you reach your three-month goals, then your six-month list, and ultimately your Dream Goal.
8. Celebrate each goal accomplished.
9. Remember that each goal accomplished is important to God. It’s important to Him how we spend our time.

“Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men but as wise, making the most of your time, because the days are evil. So then do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is” (Ephesians 5:16).

When you set down to watch TV, ask yourself, “Is this really the best use of my time?” Certainly there is a time to relax and possibly watch television or spend time on social media. But, watch out, hours can pass and what have you accomplished? Be very conscious of how you’re spending your time.

May the Lord bless you mightily this next year. Remember, He rejoices as you’re walking in righteousness and as you’re accomplishing goals that impact His Kingdom.

My friend…Dare to believe God!

“Not that I have already obtained it or have already become perfect, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus. Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus” (Philippians  3:12-14).

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