My name is Kirby and I joined ChristianMingle on June 19, 2011. Just two days later, I met the girl who would become my wife, Pamela. Our story is a match made in heaven. I had always thought that this cliché was a hoax; man was I wrong. I was amazed at how much Pam and I had in common, especially our life story. She is truly a blessing to me. We both had been married for eighteen years, and suffered physical and mental abuse from our former spouses. We also have similar interests, from food, to music to movies, etc. Not only that, but just after spending a few minutes talking, I realized we even had mutual friends. We were engaged on November 14, 2011, and we were married in Dearing, Georgia on March 30, 2012. I am so blessed to have Pam in my life.